Sugar Daddy

We’ve all witnessed the prosperous ageing man, probably with ex-wives and a family in the wake of time behind him, arm in arm with a beautiful, and much younger women, both dripping with cash and at play in some sophisticated playground. A few years ago now, I thought about this situation. It would be easy to conclude that the younger woman is actually dating the lifestyle and the bank balance over the man, however, in order to achieve this, she must also be with the man - there is no escaping this. One might then conclude that the young lady is to a degree, prostituting herself in order to achieve a more luxurious and lavish lifestyle, maybe even with ambitions of long-term security. This may or may not be true in each different case, but to believe this across the board, as is often what happens, would in my submission underestimate the complexities of a woman. Whilst I would agree that there is more opportunity for such a man to meet such a woman, both putting themselves out within rather similar and certainly exclusive circles, and have little doubt that the man’s money and it’s possibilities play a fundamental role in the woman’s initial attraction, there could be varying degrees of ambition, intelligence, independence, motives and indeed bank balances that may in turn be held by the woman, and which remain hidden, on occasions from the man in question, but always from the prying public, unless of course it is already in the public eye. Influence and power can also be strong assets for the courting older man, or indeed towards making him a target to be courted, although, such assets often go hand in hand with money. Fame, as a standalone, I would say is less so of an asset, certainly in cases where we are considering some longevity, unless of course accompanied by one or all of the aforementioned. What I have observed, is that when the relationship has formed and the couple are within one another’s sole company, the young lady more often than not looks happy. Now this maybe because they are in the excitement of the early throws of adventure, made possible by the man, whose happiness needs to be maintained. No doubt assisted by the fur and cashmere, the Christian Louboutin, the Mulberry and the Dior, but fundamentally and humanly happy to the core. It is only after the young woman becomes a married older woman or longstanding mistress that the cracks can set in, if love has failed to blossom, lifestyle aside, she will realise that as a couple, the two people are worlds apart, which can breed bitterness and resentment at what might have been elsewhere, (love and happiness), and thus, regret and unhappiness, leading to, let’s hope, another cycle. However, it is the throws of the early non marital relationship of the older man and the younger woman that interests me. The relationship must inevitably be sexual, and whereby the young lady may be somewhat repulsed at the prospect, the motive behind this somewhat frowned upon set up, is such that any aversions are swiftly overcome. I would believe that this has to be the case across the board, thus, including those women that may not be fundamentally motivated by financial gain. Those young women that go on to form a relationship, and most do, will surely be copulating regularly thereafter, as is the case when all sexually active couples are within their early throws. It is only upon becoming an unhappy wife or long standing mistress that there would be less sex. The happy younger lady who remains on the hairy Rolex clad arm, I would suggest has found something she likes about the man alone. It may be that in normal circumstances such a beautiful young lady would not find herself naked with a far older and much less beautiful man, and yet through the motives discussed, she has. Thereafter, it may be that she has discovered something that she would not normally have discovered had such a man been physically the same but average in status. Just maybe, and thanks to the money for getting us here, but putting money out of the equation between the sheets, there is good none financial endowment and young lady is physically satisfied. When the money and/or status are put aside, the debate then is whether the relations constitute prostitution. Possible not, there may be an intellectual and physical connection, however, I believe the answer would of course only present itself if the money and/or status were taken away entirely and forever, and therefore, until this is the case, the couple are in my eyes, innocent until proven guilty. As to whether there are innocent intentions, my view, is that it would not be beyond reasonable doubt that either party could be guilty of this, mutual consent however, is somewhat of a compelling argument and quite capable of overruling any judgement, if you ever found the proof to begin with that is.